This is part 3 of our 2-part series. I hope they have given you some insights into enjoying a hapier and more successful life. The following is by Mike Jay, the founder of FLOS.
Now, something that I think goes back to design and success by design.
A lot of the things in this note are helpful.
When you design with FLOS (Flawless Living Operating System) you will want to “design” the putting it down and not going to bed angry and all that stuff, which means proactively, you have to put limits on things you take on, and bring into your consciousness…
For example, don’t read mail, except Christmas cards after dinner.
Don’t get into conversations about money, or big change issues after dinner, even though you may have no other time…
If you want to dump something into your subconscious for excavation or construction, then do it in the morning when you have a whole day to forget about it and the emotion with it…
Don’t leave work with undone things that will wedge themselves into your subconscious.
Keep a quitting time everyday, ahead of when you go home, so stuff settles before you take it anywhere, especially driving…
Listen to music, enjoy people, hold and hug your kids in the evenings, watch TV or read books with them…
I once had this significant other, who made it her goal to read a story to her child every night before bed, she had such a calm and soothing voice, we both always fell asleep before the end, which makes the same story good for another time…
Use design principles to give yourself a chance at getting ready to defrag your mind and repair your cells instead of trying to solve problems when you should be sharpening the saw…
Those are things I learned a little bit about and while I’m not always mature enough to adhere, I can sure tell when I don’t…
GIVE YOURSELF A CHANCE TO SUCCEED, by designing in success…
Just like we take our happiness formula and fit it such that by being happy, we can! Enjoy creating success. Do the same with stress, and problems and the other stuff that makes us human…
Thanks for triggering this. I always wanted to say to people that you CAN create a better design for living that automatically puts you in a position to succeed.
Now, back to that chocolate thing…
mike
To learn more about FLOS and to join our 1FLOS yahoo group, visit http://www.flawlessliving.info/tfi
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